Is a man who enjoys anal sex considered a sissy? For those who think so, why can't they be thought of as someone who enjoys a variety of sexual pleasure?
12.06.2025 12:30
This is the seed of self-loathing.
Is it about variety of sexual pleasure? Hell no. If you’re the one being penetrated, you’re no better than a woman. If you like being penetrated, you want to be no better than a woman.
Yeah, there are dipshits who believe that. There are people who believe all kinds of dingbatty things.
Usually, those people have some deeply weird and kind of insecure ideas about sex. Most typical? Manly he-men of manly manliness penetrate their partners. Weak inferior feeeeeemales are penetrated. A man who gets penetrated is no better than a feeeeeemale.
So yeah, some people do indeed believe this, and those who believe it and also like anal end up twisted in some really unhealthy ways.
For such people, everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power. There is power, these people think, in who does the penetrating and who is penetrated.